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Mar
19

BABY STROLLER SAFETY TIPS

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Baby strollers are a great way to move your baby or toddle around while you are trying to shop or get some exercise.  There are several brands and models on the market with a wide range of quality and capability.  Here are some safety tips to consider when selecting and using your baby stroller.

 Select a baby stroller that is certified by the Juvenile Products Manufacturer’s Association (JPMA).  This not only means that the particular manufacturer you’ve chosen is a little more concerned about product quality than the average, AND that the product bearing that seal has met standards set for baby strollers by the American Society for Testing and Materials (ASTM).  Make an effort to buy strollers with wider wheel bases to reduce the possibility of the stroller tipping over.

 No matter how carefully a stroller is made, much of the safety involved is up to parents or other adult users.  The cardinal rule of baby safety stroller use is NEVER leave a child unattended in the stroller, even for a minute.  Strap the child into the stroller with the harness provided.  A five-point harness is better than a three-point harness.  Store purses, bags, purchased items in the carrier built into the unit.  Hanging them from the handle can shift balance enough to cause the stroller to tip over.  Lock the stroller wheels whenever you stop somewhere.

 Collapsible units make transporting a stroller much easier, but take care to keep little fingers away from the hinges and joints whenever folding the unit or erecting it.  If you elect to use a jogging stroller, check with your pediatrician to ensure your baby is compatible, from an age perspective, with the unit you wish to buy.  Connect the safety strap to you to prevent the stroller from getting away from you.

 If you consider renting, borrowing or buying a second-hand stroller, make sure that the stroller meets the JPMA standards.  Inspect it carefully for defects or any damage.  Speaking of defects, call the manufacturer and the U.S. Consumer Products Safety Commission (CPSC) if you find any defects in the stroller you buy.  Send the product registration card to the manufacturer   upon purchase.  This will assure that the warranty is in effect and that you will be notified of any product recalls that might occur in the future.

 Again, purchase a JPMA-certified stroller, use the safety harness and brakes, and don’t overload the unit. NEVER leave a child unattended.  Erect and dismantle strollers with care for the child’s fingers.  Keep a sharp eye out for any damage or defects to your baby stroller and contact both the manufacturer and the CPSC when defects do appear.

 If you’re interested in further information about child safety, we invite you to join us at www.kidshomesafety.com

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Little fingers find their way into all manner of places.  Drawers, cupboards, book shelves.  The list is endless.  In addition to this strong sense of curiosity, those just learning to walk often pull themselves up by a bookshelf or other piece of furniture.  Without the toddler’s knowledge, the bookcase they depended upon now threatens to topple over on them.

 So, go through the house to count the number of drawers and cupboard doors are in each room.  Then begin to fit each one with the appropriate latch mechanism. 

 Don’t forget refrigerators, freezers and toilets.  The toilet latch, most importantly, prevents a potential drowning.  It secondarily keeps a child from depositing toys and other things in that handy spot.

 Now take a look at china cabinets, bookcases and tall, free-standing chests or closets.  Anything that is taller and could topple over is a potential candidate for a furniture restraint.  Because toddlers are so small, your list might include end tables and the like as well.  They have to be close to a wall though.  Restraining devices work by fastening one end of the bracket into the piece of furniture and the other end into the studs in the wall.  Once both ends are secured, it takes a lot of force to cause a cabinet to topple.

 Speaking of toppling, this is the same control used to prevent furniture from falling over during an earthquake.  Thus, if you live in earthquake country, this is a procedure you should be using anyway.  Again, it is critical that the wall side of the bracket be screwed or lagged to the stud.  Except for extremely severe quakes, the moving earth may rattle the bookcase a bit, but it won’t topple over on someone.  If it’s only fastened to the plaster board, it will pop free in a minute.

 Securing cabinet and appliance doors and drawers will keep little guys out of trouble, at least this kind of trouble anyway, and out of harm’s way.   Attaching bookcases and china cabinets to wall studs prevents them from tipping over on a child.

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Mar
14

FIRE EXTINGUISHER USAGE

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Having a fire extinguisher mounted on your wall is a great first step toward child safety from fire.  But a hand-held fire extinguisher is only as good as its user.  To control a fire and protect your family, learn how to select, use and maintain a fire extinguisher.

There are fire extinguishers made for electrical, flammable liquids (like a grease fire), and common combustibles such as paper.  Instead of having three extinguishing units around, an easier and safer way to do it is to buy an extinguisher that will effectively address all three types of fires.  There needs to be enough extinguishing agent to do the job, and you want it certified by a credible laboratory.  So, when you buy an extinguisher, select a 10-pound, U.L.-listed (Underwriter’s Laboratories), ABC-rated fire extinguisher.  This means you have a dependable extinguisher filled with 10 pounds of extinguishing agent designed to put out all three types of fires.  Be sure the pressure gauge at the top of the unit reads “full.”

Once you get it home, mount the fire extinguisher on the wall using its mounting bracket or place it in a cabinet out of reach of kids but known to all adults and older children.  The extinguisher should remain dry to avoid corrosion, and shouldn’t be subjected to physical abuse.  Glance at the unit once in a while, preferably monthly, to ensure that the bottle hasn’t lost pressure.  This helps to ensure that the extinguisher performs as you expect it to in an emergency.

Speaking of making it perform, here are a few tips to remember.  First, grasp the fire extinguisher, pull the pin by the ring, and aim the nozzle at the base of the fire.  Aim at the base of the flames coming off of that pan of blazing grease on your stove.  Squeeze the lever to the side of the bottle and sweep the extinguisher from one side of the fire to the other.  Use short bursts to avoid using the entire bottle all at once.  Remember, the entire extinguisher can be emptied in seconds if the lever is held down continuously.

 To ensure that your extinguisher continues to be ready to function, have it serviced annually by a licensed fire extinguisher firm.  They’re easily found on line or in the yellow pages.  Such a firm will hydrostatically test the bottle to ensure it is sound under pressure.  They will also empty out the old powder and refill with new extinguishing agent.  When you take your extinguisher to be tested, take the unit outside or to their shop, pull the pin and squeeze the lever down until there is no more white powder coming from the nozzle.  This will show you, in a matter of seconds, how fast a unit can be emptied.  While your extinguisher is being refilled, have some baking soda at the ready until your fire extinguisher returns from the shop.  Lastly, explain to all family members over 10 years of age how the extinguisher works.

 In short, select a U.L.-listed, 10lb, ABC-rated fire extinguisher.  Store it properly and train the family how to use it.  Then, have it serviced annually to ensure proper performance.

 While every attempt has been made to ensure that the information presented here is correct, contents and any links are not warranted for accuracy or any other implied or explicit purposes, and are for information only.  Medical or other suitable professionals should be contacted when appropriate.

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Mar
14

CRIB SAFETY GUIDELINES

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A crib is a bed for a baby.   A safe haven for an infant.  In spite of that, the Consumer Products Safety Commission (CPSC) continues to announce periodic recalls for cribs that were poorly manufactured.  An example recall was initiated because the drop-sides on cribs had come loose, resulting in three infant deaths and 20 cases of bruising and falls (one of which involved a broken arm).  The purchasing and use of a crib requires constant parental vigilance.  The following guidelines are offered to assist parents in the purchasing and maintenance of their baby’s crib.

 Sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) is every parent’s nightmare.  Some suggestions to guard against SIDS include buying a tight-fitting mattress and using fitted sheets made just for cribs.  Recent recommendations instruct parents to put the baby on his back covered with a blanket that reaches only to the chest and is tucked under the mattress on each side.  The baby’s feet should be pointing toward the foot of the bed.

 Another option is to consider using a sleeper or swaddling in lieu of a blanket.  Regardless, don’t add pillows, quilts, comforters, sheepskins, pillow-like bumper pads or pillow-like stuffed toys to the crib.  Any of these can potentially cause suffocation. 

 As the baby ages, it is still important to use a tight-fitting mattress to avoid entrapment between mattress and crib slats.  Crib slats should be no more than 2 3/8 inches apart so that the baby’s head and body cannot fit between two slats.  Corner posts cannot exceed 1/16th inch in height to avoid catching the baby’s clothing.  Do not buy or modify a crib to have cutouts in the foot- or head-boards.  An infant’s head can be trapped in such decorations.

 It is paramount that cribs are properly assembled in accordance with the manufacturer’s instructions.  Once it is assembled and in the nursery, be sure to watch for any rough edges, broken hardware or loose screws or bolts.  This is critical:  some of the reported deaths have resulted from something as simple as two loose screws which allowed the drop-side to move out of position and create a suffocation hazard.  Likewise, broken slats should be replaced immediately.

 Some cribs and playpens are made with mesh sides.  Like cribs with slats, these units must be assembled properly and watched carefully for tears in the mesh or the top rail cover.  If mesh tears develop, the unit must be replaced.  Mesh openings should be less than ¼ inch across so that the small buttons on an infant’s clothing will not be caught.  The mesh must be securely attached to the top rail and floor plate usually with staples.  If so, staples should not be loose or missing.  

 In summary, cribs must be assembled according to the manufacturer’s directions, and be properly maintained throughout its lifespan.  Be especially attentive to loose or damaged parts.  Use a tight-fitting mattress with either a sleeper or a blanket up to the baby’s chest and tucked in on both sides of the mattress.  Stay away from putting pillows, comforters and stuffed toys inside the crib or playpen.  Taking these few guidelines into account will continue to make a crib an infant’s safe haven.  As always, check with your child’s doctor for any recommendations.

 If you’d like more information on baby and child safety, we invite you to join us at www.homesafetytipsforkids.com.

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Mar
14

CHILDPROOFING and ELECTRICAL SAFETY

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Little is more important when childproofing a home than proper electrical safety.  Electricity is something we use every day.  Sometimes we forget that even though its use is second nature to us, we still have to use it safely to protect our children and ourselves.  Here are a few basic ideas to help child proof your home.   

Always install ground fault circuit interrupters (GFCIs) at all electrical plugs within ten feet of any water source.  A GFCI will detect five milli-amps of stray current and interrupt the circuit in milli-seconds to prevent electrocution.   In comparison, a circuit breaker requires a current of 20 amps (for a 20 amp breaker) and at least a second to trip.  Installing GFCI’s is important; they save lives!

When our grandchildren were babies and toddlers, the state of the art electrical plug protection was various types of plastic plugs.  These had prongs which pushed into an outlet just as any electrical cord does.  They filled the outlet holes preventing a child from inserting a paperclip or some other conductive material into the outlet.  The downside here is that kids quickly learned to pull these plastic plug-ins out of the socket, but modern technology has once again met the challenge.  You can now buy plastic electric outlet covers that either slide to the side when you want to plug in a lamp, or they snap shut automatically when you disconnect a cord.  Either way faceplates or outlets are revealed only when it is time for an adult to use them, and the spring-fed covers are strong enough to prevent a toddler from opening them.

 In today’s electronic age, no home is free of electrical strips or surge protectors and computers.  Both the strips and the computer’s central processing unit (CPU) sit on the floor, placing both within easy access by a young child.  Leaving such devices open to a toddler’s curiosity exposes kids to electrocution hazards.  Manufacturers have produced covers for both the surge protectors and the CPU.  Even though light switches are a little harder to reach, they should also be protected by plastic switch covers.  Don’t underestimate a toddler’s curiosity or determination.

 To reduce the potential for a child to asphyxiate him- or herself, apply cord shortners to all lamp and computer cords that have more length than needed.  To reduce the potential for a baby or toddler to accidently bite (they put everything into their mouths) into a live wire, apply wire guards or covers to the wire and secure it to the baseboards in your home. 

All of these safety devices can save the life of your baby or toddler.  For a few dollars, you can  substantially reduce the electrical hazard exposure to your child.  All can be ordered on line or found in many local hardware stores.  They are a fast and low-cost step to babyproofing your home.

For more information on childproofing and other child safety issues, we invite you to join us at www.homesafetytipsforkids.com .

While every attempt has been made to ensure that the information presented here is correct, contents and any links are not warranted for accuracy or any other implied or explicit purposes, and are for information only.  Medical or other suitable professionals should be contacted when appropriate.

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Mar
12

CHILD HOME FIRE SAFETY

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Our homes are a safe haven and a source of comfort for us and our kids.  Part of our sense of safety and comfort stems from the ability to have heat, electricity and hot and cold running water.   While we enjoy and take these capabilities for granted, they present a potential fire hazard to our kids.

Only very large, expensive homes are fitted with indoor sprinkler systems due to the cost.  Smoke detectors however are far more common and should be in every living area.   Smoke detectors are reasonably priced and for a few dollars could save the life of your child.  Like most safety devices they must be maintained by changing the batteries semi-annually and removing any dust or dirt from the unit.  An easy way to remember when to exchange the batteries is to replace them with the changes to and from daylight saving time.  It is a good practice to test them monthly—it only takes a few minutes.

To be sure your furnace and hot water heater will perform safely and when you need them most, have them inspected annually by a licensed heating contractor.  Change the filter at least twice a year.  Avoid piling combustibles against either the hot water heater or the furnace, and  don’t use paints or other flammables near either. Today’s building codes already provide some protection from the mixing of these heat sources with flammables by installing both of them on raised platforms in your garage.  Most flammable vapors are heavier than air and so will sink to the floor.  The platform helps to keep the devices out of the explosive vapor environment.

Similar comments apply to fireplaces and cord wood or pellet stoves.  While fireplaces and especially wood stoves can be wonderful heaters, they should be properly installed and inspected to ensure that surrounding combustible walls and floors are properly protected. Combustion gases must be properly vented to prevent possible asphyxiation of any occupants.  Baseboard heaters are still commonplace as heat sources, and combustibles like drapes and furniture should be kept away from them.  While these heaters have improved over the years, direct contact with combustibles can result in a fire.

One of the biggest fire potentials is kitchen activity.  So, the first rule is to supervise your cooking.  Check items cooking on the range top or in the oven to ensure that there is sufficient water and that pots aren’t boiling over.  Keep ovens and range tops clean.  Dried on foodstuffs can catch fire or produce smoke more easily.  With today’s self-cleaning ovens, there is no good excuse.  If a fire does start, don’t throw water on a fire, especially a grease fire.  Water will only cause the hot grease and food to splash and spread to other areas.  The best solution is to have an ABC-rated portable fire extinguisher nearby and to use it properly.  If no extinguisher is available, then sprinkle baking soda on the fire to smother it.

Finally, develop a family fire response plan and practice it with family members, even with small children, so that everyone knows what to do.  It can be done as a fun project for children. Actually following the plan once helps to debug blind spots or non-performing equipment.

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Feb
25

HOME CHEMICAL STORAGE

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When you think about it, there is a wide range of chemicals used around the home all the time.  We take them for granted.  Nonetheless, they can be a major child safety hazard in our homes.   Take a minute and give it some thought.  There’s gasoline for the mower, carpet cleaners, spot removers, polishes, detergents and cleaning agents.  They are all poisonous to children, some are flammable and many are corrosive and/or explosive when combined with others. 

The first step to reducing your child’s accidental contact is to take inventory of everything you have in the house.  Anything that is old or out of date (most have expiration dates on them), or something you haven’t used in a long time, should be properly disposed of in accordance with environmental laws at the county, state and federal levels.   The easiest way to determine local requirements and capabilities is to contact the local county waste disposal or environmental control department.  They can tell you quickly how to dispose of various materials, which chemicals they can dispose of for you, and how to recycle some of them. 

Once you’ve determined what you have, you can begin to properly store, control and use chemicals safely.  As every parent knows, kids are naturally curious and will explore everywhere they can.  Storing silver polish, soaps and cleanser under the kitchen sink without cabinet latches no longer works.  General storage guidelines should include some of the following tips.  All flammables, such as gasoline, oil-based paints and some spot removers, should be stored in the garage or an outside shed in a metal box or cabinet with a little ventilation and away from heat sources (e.g., furnaces, hot water heaters, glue guns, soldering irons and other heat producers).  The container should either be placed high enough so toddlers and small kids can’t get into it or, even better, it should be locked. Chemicals should not be stored in an old soda bottle or fruit juice container.  A child may think it’s orange juice or soda. 

The other chemical items that we all use every day to clean and maintain our homes should be stored out of reach (don’t forget those little climbers) of our kids.  They should also be stored with an eye to chemical compatibility.  Dishwashing and clothes washing detergents, while they could be poisonous to a small child, won’t present a problem if they happen to spill and mix.  But others, such as chlorine bleach and vinegar and various other cleaning agents will chemically interact to form free chlorine gas which can be toxic, if not lethal, when breathed by adults or children.  It is important to  remember when using cleaning agents in the home to take a moment to read the label and determine what the “warning” sections have to say about usage and storage of the respective agent. 

If your child does get into a household chemical, the container will have first aid instructions on it.  Another good reason to read the label before using; it’s difficult to read a label when your child is hurting from a chemical exposure.  In an emergency, call 911 to get help on the way.  Call the National Capital Poison Center at 1-800-222-1222.  Even if the concern seems to have passed, contact your child’s doctor for further advice. 

Finally, chemicals are all around us at home and can be toxic to small children.  By conducting an inventory then properly disposing of potentially dangerous products no longer needed, storing flammable chemicals in a metal, secured container and by storing and using only compatible chemicals together, you can decrease your child’s chances of serious injury.

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Medications, both prescription and over-the-counter (OTC), are wonderful, make our lives better and are often life-saving.  But to babies, toddlers and young children at least under the age of 12, medications can be deadly.  Unless a drug or supplement is specifically made for young children, medications are designed primarily for adults.  Prescription medications in particular are compounded and prescribed for specific adult maladies and adult body weights.     Excessive drug strength, to say nothing of an overdose, can cause serious problems for an adult, so you can imagine how deadly such medications can be for babies, toddlers and young children.

 Begin by buying and using only the OTC and the prescription medications that are recommended by your family doctor or pediatrician.   Be sure to use these medications as specifically directed by your physician.  Also listen carefully when your pharmacist tells you how to use the drug, what the side effects can be and what drug interactions may occur.  Pharmacists are often more knowledgeable about drugs and their interactions than physicians. Most use a computer program to check for any interactions.  There are just too many pharmaceuticals available to remember all the potential exposures.  Be sure that the pharmacy uses child-proof caps on all bottles. 

 All medications should be stored ideally in a locked cabinet.  At the very least,  medications, supplements and minor malady controls, such as OTC pain controls, antacids and diarrhea controls, should be kept well out of the grasp of toddlers and small children.  Small lock boxes are available for home and travel use.  Children are naturally curious, couple this with their ability to climb, and you can see the need to store medications out of their reach.

 Be sure to turn on the light when administering any type of medication to be sure that you have the right material in the proper strength and dosage.  Many prescription containers look alike, but we can’t afford to take a chance where a child’s safety is concerned.  It’s best not to take your medications in front of your children; they tend to mimic what they see parents, grandparents and caregivers do.  Don’t ever call any medication “candy.”  Doing so can encourage a child to take several of those shiny pills believing that they are eating candy.

 Make sure you review everything in your medicine cabinet periodically. Throw out any medications that are out of date.  Expired drugs may well have a reduced potency and may not be as effective.  Keep all medications in their original bottles or other packaging.  If any are not, get rid of them.  Old prescriptions can be placed in the garbage, but an even better option is through the pharmacy that sold them originally if they have a program for disposal.

 In short, use the correct medicine in the proper way as set by your doctor.  Keep medications properly labeled and stored, be sure they are not out of date, and keep them out of the reach of young children.   Set the right example for your kids by using medications safely.  A little attention to detail can save a child’s life.

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Feb
25

GENERAL TOY GUIDELINES

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Toys usually bring smiles to young faces.  Parents have been providing toys for their children for centuries.  While toys are fun most of the time, they can result in injury or death under certain conditions.  The Consumer Products Safety Commission (CPSC) recorded a substantial drop in deaths for children under the age of 15.   Most of these deaths were associated with motorized vehicles, drowning and airway blockage in infants and toddlers as they tend to put small toys or toy parts in their mouth.  While toy-related deaths are down, emergency room visits associated with toys have increased from 152,000 in 2005 to 186,000 in 2009. 

 Many foreign countries do not have the quality and safety standards that we do (even some American manufacturers lack good quality checks).  The CPSC and the U.S.Custom Service work together to keep sub-standard toys out of the U.S. marketplace.   Even so, we still read about dangerous toys purchased here but made overseas.  Due to this joint effort and the increased diligence of many American toy manufacturers, toy recalls have been reduced from 172 in fiscal year 2008 to 50 in 2009 and 44 in fiscal year 2010.

 Toy safety starts at the beginning:  Buy or build toys that are age appropriate (no little toy parts for children under the age of three, for example), and match both the child’s interests and skill level.  Just because a child is three doesn’t mean they are necessarily ready to play with small parts and pieces.

 Once purchased, toys should be properly stored on shelves or in a toy box, and out of the weather for outdoor toys.  Shelves and especially toy boxes can develop sharp or splintery edges, and chests can offer places where fingers can be pinched and the potential for a lid to drop on an unsuspecting child. So select and maintain toy chests that  provide recessed or protected hinges, have no splintery or sharp edges (sand them down if rough edges begin to develop), and ensure that chest lids are designed to stay open in any position so that they won’t close on a child.  Be sure chests have air holes in them.  That way, if a child hides in a box or is trapped in one, they will still be able to breathe.

 Regular inspection of toys (especially outdoor toys) is prudent.  Sand down rough wooden edges.  Repainting is ok; just remember to use new paints which have little or no lead in them (older paints have high lead content levels which have been shown to affect childhood development and present other health issues).  If a toy is broken beyond repair, then destroy it.  To hesitate because it might be a favorite toy is only inviting trouble. 

 Overall, toy accidents can be minimized by selecting the appropriate toys for the child in question, and then properly storing, inspecting and maintaining those toys.  Special attention should given  to powered riding toys, as well as balloons, marbles, small balls and small toy parts in order to avoid choking hazards

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Feb
25

CHILD BULLYING

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Bullying can occur at various levels throughout our society, and none are healthy or good.  However, the arena of greatest immediate concern is in our school systems across the country.  It is estimated that 60% to 80% of children in grades K through 12 are bullied at some time during their school career.  Bullying can be a simple “one-on-one” aggressor and victim situation. It can take the form of a group not allowing one or more individuals to participate in social events or group activities.  Or, it can lead to singling out of an individual or individuals and subjecting them to severe physical or emotional abuse. 

In any form, bullying is the process of repeatedly applying emotional, verbal, written or physical abuse to an individual.  Results can range from simple fear to emotional trauma resulting from electronic or physical stalking.  In severe cases, it may lead to killings and suicides.  Emotional, as well as physical scars, can last a lifetime.   

 A classic example is the 1999 tragedy at Columbine High School in Colorado.  As you may recall, two gifted students who had been bullied for years walked into their school armed with shotguns and proceeded to shoot 13 students and staff before committing suicide.  In 2000, a Secret Service investigation of 37 premeditated school shootings revealed that the shooters, in more than two-thirds of the cases, had been subjected to severe bullying.

 New studies involving middle school and high school students indicates that, while there will always be students like those involved at Columbine,  the greater percentage of bullying stems from the “average student” who is simply jockeying for social position in the school, church or other organization.  Everyone wants to be socially accepted and part of the popular crowd.  If comments on social media or deliberately leaving a perceived competitor out of a party or other social activity make that possible, then these forms of bullying become more attractive to many students.

 Some effective steps to resolve bullying issues in person or on line include a number of the following:

  •  Try not to respond; disengage as quickly as possible.  Part of what a bully is looking for is a reaction which confirms his/her power.
  • Do not retaliate.  Responding in kind, while tempting, only makes the situation worse.  It encourages the bully to repeat the original performance.   Even worse, it makes the victim into a bully!
  • Though difficult, make every effort to be civil.  Doing otherwise makes the victim look bad, alienates friends and encourages more bullying activity.
  • It’s important to save whatever evidence of the action might remain.  Online threats and pornographic emails can be saved electronically.  A torn shirt or a damaged cell phone are real demonstrations of what happened as well.
  • In electronic situations, the bully can be blocked so that further threats can’t be sent to the victim.
  • Above all, the bullied child should go immediately to a parent or other trusted adult to report the incident. 
  • Parents should take the aforementioned steps, but should also contact school and law enforcement authorities as appropriate.  Counseling for the child may be in order for more traumatic cases.  Parents should never ignore or downplay a bullying incident.
  • Kids should be taught to not ignore an incident, but to intervene on behalf of the victim if this can be done safely.  Bullies don’t win when those around them discourage and oppose their bullying ways.  Training sessions, for kids and parents alike, are available on line and perhaps through local law enforcement authorities, some charitable organizations and quite possibly the school district.

 Being attentive to your child and following a few basic guidelines can save your child  a lot of fear, stress and possible harm.  If your school doesn’t already have an enforced anti-bullying policy, take steps to develop and install one.

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